It really disturbs me when I hear women complaining about the man they have as if he's the worse man in the world. So your married and you live in an apartment or let's say a nice small house on the hill you complain cause you want a bigger house and you saying your husband isn't working hard enough and how he should be the bread winner. First of all who says he has to be the bread winner and why must you be in a bigger house?? Right now?? What's wrong with the house yall are in now? Besides the fact that you think it's just too small? You have a man that makes a decent living he loves you and only you, he comes home to you every night, he doesn't neglect you, or try to control you, he listens to you, communicates things to you, actually engages in conversations with you, spends QT with you, yet u find something to complain about.. There's nothing wrong with wanting a bigger house but don't make it an major issues there are many women in HUGE houses and their house isn't a home either the husbands workin to much he's more devoted to his job than he is his family or he sleepin around on the wife. One might think she's happy cause she lives in a big house and got 3 rides in the garage but is she really happpy?? Everything is not what it seems you can have a huge house, a mansion even and it not be a home. So just be content with what you have there's always something to be thankful for. And to my ladies that are confused and don't know what you want can we please get it together. You complain that all men are rude, abusive, in jail, cheating, or dating a white women, or jus plain don't treat you right. Then you meet or get a man that's kind, caring, understanding, sweet, but then you complain that he's "too nice" or not "rough enough" you want a man to rough you up? And slap you around?? What's with this he's not rough enough garbage. Its either there are no good men or when you get a good man he isn't good enough. When will it end? Completeness and wholenss must first start with you and the creator GOD you can't find urself in no man, place, or thing. If your never satisfied its cause u haven't allowed JESUS into every area of ur heart, life, mind, body, and soul. No man can complete you maybe ur lookin for too much from a man ur lookin to a man to provide things for you he doesn't posess. There's no amount of flattering words, sex, money, or kids..that can fill that void. Maybe we need to check ourselves and stop placin the blame on men. Yes men can do some triflin things..and so can some women. We must start checkin ourselves know who you are, and whose you are as well as what you want out of life and a man. Some men are confused as all heck cause they don't know what women want..and that's cause some women don't even know what they want. If I was a man I would be just as confused I feel for some of our men of today. Being a man isn't easy even though I know they act like they tougher than leather and always got it together trust and know behind closed doors that front drops and it drops fast. As women we should find our contentment in GOD and all the rest will follow. Don't be desperate, don't look desperate, don't wear desperation. Contentment is da sweetest thing try it and you won't go back.
Ladies if you have a good man and he's doin the best he can..he's not cheating on you he's there for you, he takes care of you, he love you and only you, he shows you, and he tells you, and then some please hang on to what you have be content and thankful for the man you have there are women who would envy you because of the man you have and your complaining? Let's be for real love the one your with respect, honor, and love that Man, support him and assure him that next to JEsUs he's the best thing that's ever happened to you given that he is. Don't push a good man away because of your bitterness handle that hurt and bitterness before you even marry. Aside from that to my married ladies love your husband give it to him every night...well depending on his and ur sex drive....lol.. Strip for that man keep it sexxy for him you know the motto "freak in the bedroom lady in the streets" alright now let's do it married folks are suppose to have sex aside from being one and being there for each other through thick and thin sex is a part and it's okay there's no shame in it cause you can do that so do it and do it often. Make sure you keep yourself up neat and sexy make vikkies, walmart, target, and fredericks of holloywood part of your wardrobe your husband will thank you for it. Well ladies love you..to my married girls keep it going..and to my single ladies keep it tight till your my Mr. God's right for you finds you till then u do what you do..let's uplift the men in our lives..pray for them and love them.
By: Mireille Robinson
Aka Miss Compassion
Copywrights 2010
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