Saturday, December 22, 2012
Roses
I absolutely love taking pics I love roses they are such beauties to me. These babies have am astounding color they bring warm cuddly smiles to my face.
Just few things you may not know about me.
Few things prolly didn't know about me.
1. I've been hurt more by women than men. (why prefer male best friend)
2. I'm not as strong as people think that's cause my weakness is made strong in JESUS.
3. I do a lot of thinking praying reflecting and crying in the shower
4. I'm NOT stuck up as some have assumed in past and present.
5. I'm actually very sweet once you get to know and stop judging me off my looks. hair and gear.
6. I like natural remedies over medication
7. I love to smile Very friendly
8. My hair really is that long no weave tracks or fake hair.
9. I was sexually assaulted at the age of 19. ( attempted rape no rape thanks be to JESUS)
10. I'm not spoiled just loved
11. I hate alcohol with a passion drunk people use to scare me.
1. I've been hurt more by women than men. (why prefer male best friend)
2. I'm not as strong as people think that's cause my weakness is made strong in JESUS.
3. I do a lot of thinking praying reflecting and crying in the shower
4. I'm NOT stuck up as some have assumed in past and present.
5. I'm actually very sweet once you get to know and stop judging me off my looks. hair and gear.
6. I like natural remedies over medication
7. I love to smile Very friendly
8. My hair really is that long no weave tracks or fake hair.
9. I was sexually assaulted at the age of 19. ( attempted rape no rape thanks be to JESUS)
10. I'm not spoiled just loved
11. I hate alcohol with a passion drunk people use to scare me.
Attributes of A Woman.
To my fellow guys best way to get more physical attention from you wife is not to demand pester or black mail her about it. But to tap into her intellectually non sexually. It's when you do more non sexual things for her that she will want to more please you in ways you never imagined.
Women were made to connect. We can't have non emotional attached sex somewhere somehow we get attached we want to connect and be more than just a play thing. When a woman feels loved , secure, appreciated, acknowledged, accepted and beautiful she will more want to engage physically.
After a strained marriage or drought of emotional connection a woman can't just jump right back into sex like its nothing. It takes times lots and lots of talking, cuddling, praying together, cuddling and more and more cuddling talking intently listening. Unashamed open communication. Get comfortable enough to share anything with one another. There's an intimacy way beyond sex that sex can't touch it means so much more. To build that intimacy will set the tone for love making.
Romance for women starts before it hits the bedroom. Depending on the kind of woman you have the smallest thing can mean the most to her and turn her on. Once deposited into her love bank she doesn't forget it. Later that night you would be in for a night you won't forget. Women are delicacies we are to be handled with tender love and care. Learn the woman you have be intent and intentional about it. You won't be sorry you did.
Written By: Mireille Robinson
To my guys
To my guys.
Dear fellas,
A little heads up. A lady your wife doesn't feel special or loved just because you want sex with her or you keep groping and grabbing on her body parts. Not bashing physical touch at all just hear me out. A lady feels loved and special when you do the things you did in the beginning those things don't get old and tired. Checking on her, asking about her day, telling her you love her, doing goofy things together, laughing just because, wiping a crumb from her lips, asking her what's on her mind after months years of marriage can STILL cause a lady to feel loved and special.
Those are the things that lead to more intimate physical moments for a woman. She would feel closer and connected to you. In ways no groping grabbing and pulling on her body parts can do. Now hold her yes hug her from behind yes have physical touch yes, be affectionate yes, but don't expect a lady to feel special and loved just because you want to "do it" to her. Ladies are to be treated gentle as a flower not ruff like a thorn from a rose. Be encouraged in loving her in ways God can equip you to. And talk to her. Pray with her and for her. Have lots of non sexual intimate moments that will add to loves making. Be encouraged fellas as long as you abide in Christ you can do this.
"It's actually less lonely to be single and alone then married and lonely."
"Even great marriages have terrible years"
Hope Springs (the movie)
The thought I'm young I need to live my life party drink get drunk a couple times, club have fun have sex even experiment with some drugs before I come to CHRIST is a LIE from the pits of hell.
Being a Virgin Doesn't make you any less of a man be PROUD Of Your Virginity.
Please do not ruin your daughters chances at true love by instilling in her mind that all men do is leave. Let God heal your bitter heart before you infect others.
What kinda woman would let her husband stay in her apartment after he's just left her for another woman and now has no where else to go homeless without a penny to his name a smart Christian woman that seeks God on what to do.
A gentlemen always has her home before midnight.
"Jesus isn't afraid of anything so neither am I. I'm going to sleep"
From the mouth of a 5 year old
Child inspired me
"The LORD has a Bigger purpose besides your appearance."
"Beauty doesn't define you"
Book still lo lo
BREAKING NEWS: GOD Loves you. He Always has, always will.
Wise girl quotes
"When I dance I stomp on demons"
EGO. Edging God Out.
"When your tempted to be afraid just remember GOD STILL answers Prayers"
-- David Jeremiah
"As a Christian fear may get to visit but it doesn't get to move in "
Don't let every man parade in your secret garden. Keep reserved for HUSBAND only.
Whoever told you having sex with as many women as you can makes you more of a man LIED to you. But that lie to rest and give GOD your best.
There is Magnificent power in Praying in the Holy Spirit.
When GOD makes a Promise HE Keeps it.
Dear fellas,
A little heads up. A lady your wife doesn't feel special or loved just because you want sex with her or you keep groping and grabbing on her body parts. Not bashing physical touch at all just hear me out. A lady feels loved and special when you do the things you did in the beginning those things don't get old and tired. Checking on her, asking about her day, telling her you love her, doing goofy things together, laughing just because, wiping a crumb from her lips, asking her what's on her mind after months years of marriage can STILL cause a lady to feel loved and special.
Those are the things that lead to more intimate physical moments for a woman. She would feel closer and connected to you. In ways no groping grabbing and pulling on her body parts can do. Now hold her yes hug her from behind yes have physical touch yes, be affectionate yes, but don't expect a lady to feel special and loved just because you want to "do it" to her. Ladies are to be treated gentle as a flower not ruff like a thorn from a rose. Be encouraged in loving her in ways God can equip you to. And talk to her. Pray with her and for her. Have lots of non sexual intimate moments that will add to loves making. Be encouraged fellas as long as you abide in Christ you can do this.
"It's actually less lonely to be single and alone then married and lonely."
"Even great marriages have terrible years"
Hope Springs (the movie)
The thought I'm young I need to live my life party drink get drunk a couple times, club have fun have sex even experiment with some drugs before I come to CHRIST is a LIE from the pits of hell.
Being a Virgin Doesn't make you any less of a man be PROUD Of Your Virginity.
Please do not ruin your daughters chances at true love by instilling in her mind that all men do is leave. Let God heal your bitter heart before you infect others.
What kinda woman would let her husband stay in her apartment after he's just left her for another woman and now has no where else to go homeless without a penny to his name a smart Christian woman that seeks God on what to do.
A gentlemen always has her home before midnight.
"Jesus isn't afraid of anything so neither am I. I'm going to sleep"
From the mouth of a 5 year old
Child inspired me
"The LORD has a Bigger purpose besides your appearance."
"Beauty doesn't define you"
Book still lo lo
BREAKING NEWS: GOD Loves you. He Always has, always will.
Wise girl quotes
"When I dance I stomp on demons"
EGO. Edging God Out.
"When your tempted to be afraid just remember GOD STILL answers Prayers"
-- David Jeremiah
"As a Christian fear may get to visit but it doesn't get to move in "
Don't let every man parade in your secret garden. Keep reserved for HUSBAND only.
Whoever told you having sex with as many women as you can makes you more of a man LIED to you. But that lie to rest and give GOD your best.
There is Magnificent power in Praying in the Holy Spirit.
When GOD makes a Promise HE Keeps it.
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Being an emotional slut.
I think sometimes as women if we are not careful we can become emotional sluts. Clinging to the emotional aspect of being with a man or simply connecting. It's almost like it becomes some sort of addiction. I can only speak for myself when I say I long for connection in a relationship. I desire this more than sex for me sex without connection is worthless, pointless and holds no substance at all. I can't be with someone I do not feel emotionally connected to. Being married taught me this, being married taught me a lot about myself. I never really knew just how important emotional connection was to me until I was married. Marriage has changed me sometimes I think for better other times I think for worse.
Nothing against GOD and his idea for marriage but there are times I do not care for marriage I don't even like marriage and I believe that's because I settled in my marriage and I rushed things too much I did not WAIT on GOD like I should have. I find that when that emotional connection is missing I long for it else where or I feel that I need to get it somewhere else if I am not getting it where I am.. I picked up a lot of bad habits our of being hurt and neglected. I got too comfortable in my bad habits. Talk about issues I got issues why I NEED JESUS and will forever be humbled by that fact. Now back to this emotional slut business it's something complex in some sense then not really. Think of it more so as your emotional legs vs your physical legs. this can be just as dangerous sometimes if not worse. Emotional connections are deeper than just sex and they can take longer to break away from. Emotional pain can cut deeper than physical pain. You feel so close in ways you never thought you could. You share a lot with this person you tell them a lot. You can talk text them for hours on end our always thinking of them next thing you know you want to see them spend time with them. Then things can easily turn physical which can make matters worse. Especially if this person is not your spouse or someone you are engaged to even then you need to be careful. Because as Christian women we should be waiting until marriage for sex no if's and's or buts about it. I often wonder about just how much of a need this is for me. I believe it's a very great need. I need to be close to you in more ways than just sex. Sex isn't everything and as far as I am concerned it's just too over rated these days.
It's not a bad thing because God made it, it's just too over rated to me at times. There are other things just as important if not more important in relationships than sex. There must be conversation, communication, talking, conversing, having non sexual intimate moments together quality time and lots and lots of cuddling. hint lots and lots. I am more of a cuddlier I like to cuddle a lot watch movies relate talk those kind of things which can lead to more sex but that must not be the goal point. I have found in my time that older men are more keen to the connection and talking more aspect of a relationship because they are more seasoned than some young men. If you was dating I was seriously consider dating an older man not too old but older more seasoned than myself. I can't stand immaturity in a man it just rubs me all the wrong way. I love compassion, thoughtfulness, and care in a man and he MUST love JESUS be walking with him and have his own relationship with GOD not trying to get one with GOD through me. I crave need want that emotional connection it means so much to me. In certain aspects it opens all kinds of avenues to intimacy for me. It can even make the sex better being that I would then be more willing and wanting to have sex with you because I feel connected and much closer to you than just sexually. A lot of men can't seem to grasp this concept because they are not taking the time to seek research and learn what a emotional connection is and just how vital and important it is to a woman. I question myself a lot asking is something wrong with me? because I like be emotionally connected. I like when a man can hold a conversation is intellectual and inclined to things I say I need to be careful because if I have a hint of like for you I start thinking of you emotionally and wanting to talk to you more and the whole nine.
That's why it's important to know when you are venerable in those times it's best to stay cleat of men, some men can smell it on you at least that's what I think because it's almost like some of them know just what to say and how to maneuver themselves to the point you are pouring you heart out to them about how hurt you are what's on your mind what you want, miss, like, and need next thing you know your sharing you fears, hopes, and dreams with this man. Next thing you know you start picturing you future with him then thinking what it would be like to be married to him and the whole nine. I don't want to be an emotional slut, I don't want to be a slut anything. This is why I am seeking christian counseling and I am determine to work on my issue and better myself in Christ because I want to be all the woman he made me to be nothing less. Just my stupid fears get in the way sometimes and I get set backs. But I shall overcome I can't give up hope not when JESUS is coming back. I also think part of why I crave this a great deal is because I did not grow up with my dad so I think this plays a part in it, Not that is strange or unheard of that women like to connect because we do more than anything we as women want to connect we want connection with our life long mate. Something bonded and strong that will stand the test of time we want to be closer to you more than any other at least that's how I would want it. I like the tight knit bond no one can come between us type love. Which takes GOD prayer and work nothing like that happens over night of this I am sure. Am I an emotional slut? Sometimes I wonder I don't want to be but in order to not be I must keep GOD in my life my business my everything at all times. I can't do this life with out GOD.
As ladies we need to be careful with our emotions. We need to guard our hearts with all diligence. Stay inclined to God so that way no dude can run game on you. Because they be trying Christian or not and sometimes the Christian ones be the worse ones sad but true this is why we must stay inclined with GOD. I will end in saying I must work my issues out with the help of continued Christian Counselor and my LORD and Saviour Jesus Christ to whom I love and am so thankful for Amen.
Written By: Mireille Robinson Mathis
I think sometimes as women if we are not careful we can become emotional sluts. Clinging to the emotional aspect of being with a man or simply connecting. It's almost like it becomes some sort of addiction. I can only speak for myself when I say I long for connection in a relationship. I desire this more than sex for me sex without connection is worthless, pointless and holds no substance at all. I can't be with someone I do not feel emotionally connected to. Being married taught me this, being married taught me a lot about myself. I never really knew just how important emotional connection was to me until I was married. Marriage has changed me sometimes I think for better other times I think for worse.
Nothing against GOD and his idea for marriage but there are times I do not care for marriage I don't even like marriage and I believe that's because I settled in my marriage and I rushed things too much I did not WAIT on GOD like I should have. I find that when that emotional connection is missing I long for it else where or I feel that I need to get it somewhere else if I am not getting it where I am.. I picked up a lot of bad habits our of being hurt and neglected. I got too comfortable in my bad habits. Talk about issues I got issues why I NEED JESUS and will forever be humbled by that fact. Now back to this emotional slut business it's something complex in some sense then not really. Think of it more so as your emotional legs vs your physical legs. this can be just as dangerous sometimes if not worse. Emotional connections are deeper than just sex and they can take longer to break away from. Emotional pain can cut deeper than physical pain. You feel so close in ways you never thought you could. You share a lot with this person you tell them a lot. You can talk text them for hours on end our always thinking of them next thing you know you want to see them spend time with them. Then things can easily turn physical which can make matters worse. Especially if this person is not your spouse or someone you are engaged to even then you need to be careful. Because as Christian women we should be waiting until marriage for sex no if's and's or buts about it. I often wonder about just how much of a need this is for me. I believe it's a very great need. I need to be close to you in more ways than just sex. Sex isn't everything and as far as I am concerned it's just too over rated these days.
It's not a bad thing because God made it, it's just too over rated to me at times. There are other things just as important if not more important in relationships than sex. There must be conversation, communication, talking, conversing, having non sexual intimate moments together quality time and lots and lots of cuddling. hint lots and lots. I am more of a cuddlier I like to cuddle a lot watch movies relate talk those kind of things which can lead to more sex but that must not be the goal point. I have found in my time that older men are more keen to the connection and talking more aspect of a relationship because they are more seasoned than some young men. If you was dating I was seriously consider dating an older man not too old but older more seasoned than myself. I can't stand immaturity in a man it just rubs me all the wrong way. I love compassion, thoughtfulness, and care in a man and he MUST love JESUS be walking with him and have his own relationship with GOD not trying to get one with GOD through me. I crave need want that emotional connection it means so much to me. In certain aspects it opens all kinds of avenues to intimacy for me. It can even make the sex better being that I would then be more willing and wanting to have sex with you because I feel connected and much closer to you than just sexually. A lot of men can't seem to grasp this concept because they are not taking the time to seek research and learn what a emotional connection is and just how vital and important it is to a woman. I question myself a lot asking is something wrong with me? because I like be emotionally connected. I like when a man can hold a conversation is intellectual and inclined to things I say I need to be careful because if I have a hint of like for you I start thinking of you emotionally and wanting to talk to you more and the whole nine.
That's why it's important to know when you are venerable in those times it's best to stay cleat of men, some men can smell it on you at least that's what I think because it's almost like some of them know just what to say and how to maneuver themselves to the point you are pouring you heart out to them about how hurt you are what's on your mind what you want, miss, like, and need next thing you know your sharing you fears, hopes, and dreams with this man. Next thing you know you start picturing you future with him then thinking what it would be like to be married to him and the whole nine. I don't want to be an emotional slut, I don't want to be a slut anything. This is why I am seeking christian counseling and I am determine to work on my issue and better myself in Christ because I want to be all the woman he made me to be nothing less. Just my stupid fears get in the way sometimes and I get set backs. But I shall overcome I can't give up hope not when JESUS is coming back. I also think part of why I crave this a great deal is because I did not grow up with my dad so I think this plays a part in it, Not that is strange or unheard of that women like to connect because we do more than anything we as women want to connect we want connection with our life long mate. Something bonded and strong that will stand the test of time we want to be closer to you more than any other at least that's how I would want it. I like the tight knit bond no one can come between us type love. Which takes GOD prayer and work nothing like that happens over night of this I am sure. Am I an emotional slut? Sometimes I wonder I don't want to be but in order to not be I must keep GOD in my life my business my everything at all times. I can't do this life with out GOD.
As ladies we need to be careful with our emotions. We need to guard our hearts with all diligence. Stay inclined to God so that way no dude can run game on you. Because they be trying Christian or not and sometimes the Christian ones be the worse ones sad but true this is why we must stay inclined with GOD. I will end in saying I must work my issues out with the help of continued Christian Counselor and my LORD and Saviour Jesus Christ to whom I love and am so thankful for Amen.
Written By: Mireille Robinson Mathis
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