Now I know there are many different views on this. Some say believers have no business in the club they say the club/lounge is no place for a christian. I beg to differ only because we aren't to look down on anyone the people in the club, lounges need prayer too this is not to say you can't pray for them without going to the lounge but still, I believe it's good to step out see what's going on in the world mingle without mingling show love without participating in the hoopla.
I believe where va you go GOD is. JESUS be up in the club he's right there I don't care what anybody says HE be right up in there. JEsUs dwells with the sinners he walks and talks with them he doesn't condemn or look down on them as heathens of the earth. I'm not JeSUS and I'm not saying I would slam walk up in a crack house out the blue but what I am saying is if lead to or just to visit every once and a while a lounge what harm is there in that??... Now if you attend to drink, get drunk, dance and grind yourself up on every man that makes a pass @ you that's an issue.
I also realize there are some women that have partied all their life went out drank, got drunk, did unspeakable things in night clubs and that's just no longer for them they found Jesus and just can't go back to that nite life especially if drinking and night clubs are their weakness it's best for them to just stay away that I can fully understand. I believe the reason why I look @ this in a different aspect is because I was never that call not saying that makes me a saint because I am no saint..but I never partied a lot drank got drunk or any of that first time I went to a lounge I was think 26 or 27 it was a pretty interesting experience. I enjoyed myself but knew every weekend night, that's just not for me but I wouldn't knock it completely.
Oddly enough when growing up although I am very fashionable and love to dance and rock the heels and hair I don't do make up much, (smile) I just never had the desire to go clubbin then my perception of clubs were wrong I thought men were rude and just grabbed up on you. I thought men degraded women in clubs especially being out that late at night. I also believe GOD just kept me from certain things certain things he just shielded my eyes from cause HE knew it would be upsetting to me. So what I may have been a little sheltered.
Once I went and experienced it I found out men do respect you as long as you respect yourself. Men aren't grabbing all up on you like I thought. Also if u don't flirt they won't flirt with you so its all about how you carry yourself in these enviorments. Frankly I was able to share the love of JeSUS and a bit of my story with a guy in a lounge once. I was introduced to him by a cousin of mine that I went out that night. This doesn't happen all the time but that particular night was a divine appointment. He noticed I wasn't drinking or dancing up on dudes..I was just sitting quiet and observing pretty much. People are attracted to different or some I should say if not most. Difference in a person can bring questions. So he asked me how come ur not drinking or dancing? Would you like me to buy you a drink? I said no then went on to answer his questions he asked more and within that conversation I was able to share the love of JeSus with him right there up in the lounge. A seed was planted a difference was seen and some changes were made can't NOBODY tell me JESUS wasn't in the mist. Too many times people try to put GOD in a box and he isn't to be boxed in not at all.
So to conclude let GOD speak to your heart about the lounges I see it differently because I have no issues with drinking clubbin hard and goin buck loose in night clubs.So for me I see no harm not if GOD were to ever convict me or speak to me to stop then I will..but as for not my mission to claim every soul up in the lounges when eva I go which isn't often but once and a while. Someones always watching and if GOD lives in you where va you go he goes. Even if he doesn't he's still there because he's GOD.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Friday, May 21, 2010
Mean Girls
Why would u smile in ur sisters face then vicisously talk behind her back? Why would u plot and have ill thoughts towards ur sister? Why would u malicously set out to plot against her and just hate the very skin she lives in what evil is it that u have allowed to dwell in ur heart what is it in you that brings u to such a place to hate the very image of you why must sum girls have such a negative vibe towards one another why can't u jus love ur sister instead of tryin to compete against her why?!?!!
Where do mean girls orginate from? Broken homes? Hurt places? Negative inputs? They can orginate from anywhere they could become you and me is we aren't careful girls can be the death of another females self esteem. Mean girl tend to be unhapppy with themselves so they cause hurt, pain or harm to others. Mean girls suck but they need love too cause we ALL need love no matter what we have done, where we came from, where we have been, who we are, how much we make, or what our occupation is. We were made to love and be loved. I have had my share of expereince with mean girls at my young age I didn't understand why they were so mean to me. It was when I got older I later understood that they were "hatin" on me as some put it.
Pray as I will myself that you don't ever become a mean girl the emotional pain nd even physical pain they inflict on others is no joke. Mean girls have generated from generation to generation they still exsist today we must remember them and pray for them. To my share of mean girls I have forgive you. To the mean girls take time to stop and think before you inflict pain on another learn empathy and try to make it a way of life seek your inner self, hurt, and pain to see why in fact you feel in order to survive you must inflict pain on another. For now this is Mrs. Compassion signing out one love. Always loving, always giving.
By: Mireille Robinson
Where do mean girls orginate from? Broken homes? Hurt places? Negative inputs? They can orginate from anywhere they could become you and me is we aren't careful girls can be the death of another females self esteem. Mean girl tend to be unhapppy with themselves so they cause hurt, pain or harm to others. Mean girls suck but they need love too cause we ALL need love no matter what we have done, where we came from, where we have been, who we are, how much we make, or what our occupation is. We were made to love and be loved. I have had my share of expereince with mean girls at my young age I didn't understand why they were so mean to me. It was when I got older I later understood that they were "hatin" on me as some put it.
Pray as I will myself that you don't ever become a mean girl the emotional pain nd even physical pain they inflict on others is no joke. Mean girls have generated from generation to generation they still exsist today we must remember them and pray for them. To my share of mean girls I have forgive you. To the mean girls take time to stop and think before you inflict pain on another learn empathy and try to make it a way of life seek your inner self, hurt, and pain to see why in fact you feel in order to survive you must inflict pain on another. For now this is Mrs. Compassion signing out one love. Always loving, always giving.
By: Mireille Robinson
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