Fear. Is so alive in our world today it's like you can't wake up live and breathe without fear being some where around. The news does not help with fear what happens in life and in our world does not help us with fear because it seems to be all around us. This is why a SAVIOR is needed this is why we NEED JESUS more than we realize. GOD can be our safe haven a place of safety and refuge although he consistently tell us in his word not to fear cause HE is with us we still fear. I know I do I have my fears that still grip me to this day sometimes I can't say I am free from fear wish I could but I can't it's still a continuous process. We are also told to trust GOD but do we really trust GOD. I know I don't because honestly and truly if I trusted GOD as I should I would not be as fearful as I am anxiety would be the least of my worries and I would be more at peace than I am at this given day and age. One thing I am learning is where my focus is. When we take our eyes off GOD that's when things go all wrong. We get distracted and we start looking at our circumstance's instead of GOD. We then try to fix things instead of allowing GOD to help us with it or take care of it for us. It's hard for us to just let go and let GOD we seem to struggle with that a lot. When really GOD is the one to trust he knows it all he knows when,how, who if, and when, HE knows ALL things because he is GOD yet we do not trust Him as we should strange but true.
I think some of us feel helpless unless we worry almost like it's wrong to not worry when really it is okay to not worry. Worry solves nothing it makes matters worse it can even make you sick cause you to loose weight even gain weight its just very unhealthy for us to worry. Relaxing for some of us is such a Huge task it's almost like we feel we can not accomplish relaxation because we may not be use to it or we might even be afraid to relax. Afraid we might miss something or something might not get done we so NEED JESUS in our lives to help us maintain a sense of peace and contentment in such a fearful worry some world. In my journey with GOD I am learning that where there is no fear the devil can not dwell he stems off fear panic worry and anxiety he dwells in those things because he knows he can use to to distract us off the promises of GOD. If we change our focus off GOD and what he has called up to do the KINGDOM of GOD can not grow as it should souls won't be saved as it should and the devil knows this so he tries to use tactics such as fear, worry, anxiety, and things as such to get us off track with GOD. Although children of GOD can NOT be possessed by the devil and his demons we can be OPPRESSED NOT Possessed but Oppressed and the oppression we can RESIST we do not have to accept that crap not for one second we can REBUKE the devil in the name of JESUS and he will FLEE. But we have to be willing to do that be willing to fight the devil and RESIST him put him in his place. Life is hard but with GOD we can get through it. I don't think I know a soul that don't have issues with worrying at some point and time in their life it happens often too much. Conquering worry can't be done without JESUS we can not do this on our own we can't fight this fight on our own we need back up and that back up is JESUS off course.
I also find that for worry fear is crippling it can cause you to not want to do anything which the devil knows this is why he dwells in fear. It can have you not doing anything but being fearful of all these WHAT IF'S I hate those what if's I can go on and on but I must say I am thankful for Jesus and his mercy grace refuge and the bible. The Word of GOD is very powerful this happen, things change when we apply the word of GOD. I know for me I find that sometimes I just wanna lay cuddled up with my bible call me crazy but there is POWER in the Word of GOD. Having my bible by my bed side is comforting to me so if I ever need a word or promise from GOD all I have to do is reach for it. When we think about it the devil is really a coward he has to always come with something he has to use something in order or affect us in anyway he can't come empty handed he hides behind things, people, worry, fear, anxiety, panic all those things we dread he uses even hides behind. Worry can be defeated but it's a constant renewal of our mind and thought process we do have to be mindful of what we let in our ear gates and eye gates it's crucial and it really is that deep. Some do not want to believe it's that deep but it really is. Fear can creep through the things we let in what we invite or entertain. GOD knows why he tells us to have BOUNDARIES. It really is for our own benefit he cares that much about us. As someone that struggles with worry myself sometimes I want to encourage you to keep seeking after God stay close to JESUS like never before seek his face, seek to learn his ways stay build up and GUARDED in the word of GOD so when battle comes you are ready and prepared. Feed your mind GODS word DAILY be reading his word a devotion prayer something. Don't neglect your mind or leave it open to any and everything. Your mind is Precious and is to be taken very seriously bind your mind to the mind of CHRIST daily. Dwell in praise and worship drown the enemy in his own misery by feeding you mind soul GODS word. In due time I trust that we will overcome worry it won't be as big as an issue if an issue at all. Cut back on News if you have to replace reading your bible or watch the church channel if you have it or listen to an audio book or sermon vs the news it will make a huge difference. Nourish your mind GUARD your mind. Be Blessed and Encouraged living loving and seeking GOD always.
By : Mireille Robinson
COPYWRIGHTS @2011
Miss Compassion
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Dating Married Men.
How complex is this dating a married man? some say how could you? but it happens and it could even happen to you if you are not careful. In life we can easily end up doing things we said we would never do if we are not careful. This is why it is so vital to have boundaries in life. Because frankly without them things would just be buck wild. Some married men seek out other women some men test you to see how far they can go with you to see what you will tolerate and won't tolerate. Some men come with an agenda most married men do. Some start off very innocent with no real intention of an affair. This is why we need to have boundaries. For instance no married man should be calling you "babe, honey, sweetheart, sexy, boo, or any of those names because he is married. You can even go as far as saying no man has a right to call you those names unless you all are in a committed relationship that is your right, your choice. If the guy can not respect that then he can step. Every man that finds you attractive is not to be followed up on. Men will come and go some will leave me mark some won't. Anytime you see a married man is getting too close to you or maybe talking to you too much telling you things you think he should be telling his wife it's time to stop it. This can gradually happen right before your eyes. Marriage is hard period, Marriage is work period. That is not to say Marriage can't be good but it does time much time, effort, patience, investment, compromise, and work. So t here are times in a marriage where things are not going to be so good and at those times sometimes a spouse might stray or be tempted to do so lets try not to be that temptation to a married man. This is not to say it is always the woman's fault a woman c could be minding her own business then here comes this married man with his compliments, chats, flirts, gifts, and whatever else he may bring to the table. But we have a choice to decline it all.
Another thing that we as women need to be mindful of is our venerability. At times when you are vulnerable any man that shows us the time of day or some love and affection we can fall for and he does not even have to be all that attractive he could even be married and we would look past that because our need to be wanted and paid attention to is greater than out morals at the time this can be tricky and easily indicated. This is why we so need JESUS daily to guide us and be with us we need to seek him about our emotions feelings and venerability. Which as women we do not always do we are so quick to run into the arms of a man before we do GOD. It take time growth and patience. We also must remember the other woman always gets hurt in the end. Because the other woman is just that the other woman. As twisted as the married man devotion might be to his wife he is devoted to her not you. So you can get left at anytime he may tell you he will marry you but does he ever??? he may tell you he is leaving his wife but does he ever?? It is RARE that a man would leave his wife and kids and go marry the woman he is having an affair with and IF he does that relationship does not last long. Because if he cheats with you he will cheat on you and if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. There are reasons affairs ac cure sometimes there are selfish reasons other times it is because something was missing lacking in the marriage but it never excuses the affair or makes it right. Wrong is Wrong right is right and affairs are wrong no matter the reason. But I can understand why some affairs may ac cure which is not to excuse it in any way. So to my ladies be aware of married men please do no date them or fall for any of the flirting to be "innocent" a married man has no business flirting with other women other than HIS WIFE. There is nothing innocent about flirting because it starts in the head before it hits the bed it's true. Most actions start with thoughts and words hold power and much feelings that trigger things in us as women as people in general. Don't play with fire don't play with married men respect yourself enough to know you deserve so much better. GOD will never bless you with another woman's husband that is not how our GOD works. We each have our own husbands are not to be shared between two women that is perversion. If Women took a stand men would not have any women to have an affair with cheat on with but it goes both way and frankly world we live in is fallen we are sinners that give into our flesh but because of JESUS we do not have to be ruled by our flesh we can take a stand and do what is right in the sight of GOD.
IF a married man asks you out the answer is NO. IF a married man wants to take you to a movie or out just to talk just you and him and his wife is not welcomes the answer is NO. If you can only be friends with him and not his wife then I would decline. Let's say you have a very good male friend that is now married I would say you take time to get to know his wife so there will be no friction there. Do not step on her toes because she is his wife and no matter how long you may have been friends with him once he marries her she comes First because she is his WIFE you are not. Once you marry you becomes ONE no longer TWO but ONE. And as his friend you should respect that. When married one has to be wise and careful. Because we are still human no matter how much GOD we have in us we should not put ourselves in tempting situation because the flesh is weak and we are prone to fall at anytime so we should never think of ourselves as SO mighty that we can go be alone with a married man that we find attractive and think nothing is going to happened because "I have it under control" sweetheart no you don't we don't so best to not put ourselves in that situation. I admit being a woman myself when a man sees you pays attention to you calls you nice names compliments you it can be so nice. Attention period can be nice at times. It is better to know who we are in GOD know how lovely we are in his sight so we do not crave so much attention and validation from a man. It would just be icing on the cake not something we crave just to be happy with ourselves. If you are a woman that have more male friends than female friends keep this in mind cause that male friend may get married one day and in being a good friend you would want to respect his marriage. IF you have feelings for this male friend I would advice you tell him before it's too late. That is a whole other topic smile =)
So please do not even give into dating a married man being that you are a woman of GOD trying to live a life that is pleasing in the sight of GOD. If you are a woman that does not care you just do what feels good to you at any given moment then this may not apply to you but I would love for you to think about what you are doing when you are doing who you are hurting and what harm you are also bringing to yourself. Taking a hard long look at ourselves is not always easy but it is always worth the look. There is always something that causes us to do the things we do we just have to examine what. Let us take the time to get to know the you GOD created you to be. Let us to do what we would want don unto us. GOD is with us and He can help us set the boundaries we need to ensure that our heart is guarded. Married men are off limits and we are off limits to married men let us not even entertain the thought or flirt with the idea. We are loved, appreciated and cared for by GOD the maker of the Universe if only we can fully comprehend that. In closing I would like to say keep smiling love GOD love yourself and don't settle for nothing but God's best for you He loves you and you are special in His sight what he has for you is more than some married man that wants another to go to when his wife is getting on his nerves. Seek GOD keep GOD close. Much Love.
Written By: Mireille Robinson M
COPYRIGHTS @2011
Miss Compassion
Another thing that we as women need to be mindful of is our venerability. At times when you are vulnerable any man that shows us the time of day or some love and affection we can fall for and he does not even have to be all that attractive he could even be married and we would look past that because our need to be wanted and paid attention to is greater than out morals at the time this can be tricky and easily indicated. This is why we so need JESUS daily to guide us and be with us we need to seek him about our emotions feelings and venerability. Which as women we do not always do we are so quick to run into the arms of a man before we do GOD. It take time growth and patience. We also must remember the other woman always gets hurt in the end. Because the other woman is just that the other woman. As twisted as the married man devotion might be to his wife he is devoted to her not you. So you can get left at anytime he may tell you he will marry you but does he ever??? he may tell you he is leaving his wife but does he ever?? It is RARE that a man would leave his wife and kids and go marry the woman he is having an affair with and IF he does that relationship does not last long. Because if he cheats with you he will cheat on you and if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. There are reasons affairs ac cure sometimes there are selfish reasons other times it is because something was missing lacking in the marriage but it never excuses the affair or makes it right. Wrong is Wrong right is right and affairs are wrong no matter the reason. But I can understand why some affairs may ac cure which is not to excuse it in any way. So to my ladies be aware of married men please do no date them or fall for any of the flirting to be "innocent" a married man has no business flirting with other women other than HIS WIFE. There is nothing innocent about flirting because it starts in the head before it hits the bed it's true. Most actions start with thoughts and words hold power and much feelings that trigger things in us as women as people in general. Don't play with fire don't play with married men respect yourself enough to know you deserve so much better. GOD will never bless you with another woman's husband that is not how our GOD works. We each have our own husbands are not to be shared between two women that is perversion. If Women took a stand men would not have any women to have an affair with cheat on with but it goes both way and frankly world we live in is fallen we are sinners that give into our flesh but because of JESUS we do not have to be ruled by our flesh we can take a stand and do what is right in the sight of GOD.
IF a married man asks you out the answer is NO. IF a married man wants to take you to a movie or out just to talk just you and him and his wife is not welcomes the answer is NO. If you can only be friends with him and not his wife then I would decline. Let's say you have a very good male friend that is now married I would say you take time to get to know his wife so there will be no friction there. Do not step on her toes because she is his wife and no matter how long you may have been friends with him once he marries her she comes First because she is his WIFE you are not. Once you marry you becomes ONE no longer TWO but ONE. And as his friend you should respect that. When married one has to be wise and careful. Because we are still human no matter how much GOD we have in us we should not put ourselves in tempting situation because the flesh is weak and we are prone to fall at anytime so we should never think of ourselves as SO mighty that we can go be alone with a married man that we find attractive and think nothing is going to happened because "I have it under control" sweetheart no you don't we don't so best to not put ourselves in that situation. I admit being a woman myself when a man sees you pays attention to you calls you nice names compliments you it can be so nice. Attention period can be nice at times. It is better to know who we are in GOD know how lovely we are in his sight so we do not crave so much attention and validation from a man. It would just be icing on the cake not something we crave just to be happy with ourselves. If you are a woman that have more male friends than female friends keep this in mind cause that male friend may get married one day and in being a good friend you would want to respect his marriage. IF you have feelings for this male friend I would advice you tell him before it's too late. That is a whole other topic smile =)
So please do not even give into dating a married man being that you are a woman of GOD trying to live a life that is pleasing in the sight of GOD. If you are a woman that does not care you just do what feels good to you at any given moment then this may not apply to you but I would love for you to think about what you are doing when you are doing who you are hurting and what harm you are also bringing to yourself. Taking a hard long look at ourselves is not always easy but it is always worth the look. There is always something that causes us to do the things we do we just have to examine what. Let us take the time to get to know the you GOD created you to be. Let us to do what we would want don unto us. GOD is with us and He can help us set the boundaries we need to ensure that our heart is guarded. Married men are off limits and we are off limits to married men let us not even entertain the thought or flirt with the idea. We are loved, appreciated and cared for by GOD the maker of the Universe if only we can fully comprehend that. In closing I would like to say keep smiling love GOD love yourself and don't settle for nothing but God's best for you He loves you and you are special in His sight what he has for you is more than some married man that wants another to go to when his wife is getting on his nerves. Seek GOD keep GOD close. Much Love.
Written By: Mireille Robinson M
COPYRIGHTS @2011
Miss Compassion
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Conversations with GOD.
How often do you talk to GOD? God is so interested in talking with us. Talking with GOD is really a simple as talking with a friend you do not have to be mighty highty and holy you can relax and be yourself because GOD knows the real you anyway there is nothing we can hide from God because he know the whole truth and nothing but the truth about us GOD is that smart he made is he knows it all. The INS and OUTS the ups and down the ugly the good the bad. He knows our good thoughts, bad thoughts, insecurties all of that but yet he still wishes to have conversation with us because he cares and loves us that much. If only we can grasp just how much GOD cares about us. Sometimes we doubt and questions God's love for us or if he really does care that much about us when in fact he does. HE gave his one and only begotten son for us all his love is so unconditional he loves us differently than we love each other and even ourselves. HE loves us more than we love ourselves God is amazing and he made you and me to long for a relationship with him nothing or anyone can satisfy your soul like JESUS. He is such a gentlemen and he waits on us he does not force himself on us or make us do anything we do not want to do there is no one like GOD.
Be sure to make time to talk to GOD you can talk to him at any given time of the day it does not have to be a particular time. GOD is available 24 hrs a day around the clock HE is never too busy for you nor is he never there HE is always there HE never slumbers nor sleeps HE is always there when you need HIM. You won't be put on hold or asked to call back I think that is just lovely. Get to know God get close to him tell him all your hurts,fears, concerns, goals, dreams, plans, everything tell God. Even though he already knows conversation with GOD is great, growing and so needed in our life. We can't make it on our own success without GOD is no sucess at all. we must learn to humble ourselves and LIFT up GOD. to humble ourselves is not to be little ourselves but to know that we need GOD we can't make it on our own, it is to be greatful and thankful for all that GOD has given us, to be aware that GOD is the one who gives us life and strength. We do not wake up ourselves GOD wakes us. We should be thankful and aware of this once we have come into the knowledge of the truth those in the dark can not see or know this for they are still in the dark and no into the light as yet. We can pray for them strangers, loved ones in our time we are conversating with GOD. Prayer is basically conversations with GOD. Take time to also read the bible you do not have to read the bible in a whole day or put pressure on yourself to know every verse just take your time read a verse a day or start of with a devotion a day that normally will come with a verse of the day. We do not gain GODS love by works or what we do or don't do it is by his grace, mercy, and love. Be sure to do these things because you want to do them, you want to know God and dwell in Hid presence. Because there is nothing we can do to make GOD love us anymore or less. HE loves us regardless of what we do or don't do. GOD hates the sin but LOVES the sinner let us all remember that.
Don't be shy GOD knows you everything about you and he loves you. You are Welcomed to speak with him walk with him dwell with him. JESUS longs to be our friend. HE is a friend to the end he can be trusted we need to trust GOD more than we do which is a learning process so do not feel bad if you do not trust GOD as you should he understands because he made us he understands it's hard to be us yet he loves us you and me each and every one of us. Well this is it for now please be reminded to talk to GOD daily he longs to hear from you. Sit back talk to God be real with him share it all with him he is a GREAT listener he hears it ALL. HE is so amazing that he hears all prayers at one time only GOD can do that. We in our own human strength could not do that just not within our capacity BUT GOD can do it because HE is GOD. He is able and capable. So right now, or before bed tonight talk to GOD. If you are a writer like me you can write to him HE is there waiting, loving, caring, watching, GOD is so amazing to me. I love him in a HUGE way simply amazing singing out assuring you GOD loves you and I do to have a blessed day, week, night and rest of your life.
Miss Compassion.
By: Mireille Robinson M.
COPYWRIGHTS @2011
Be sure to make time to talk to GOD you can talk to him at any given time of the day it does not have to be a particular time. GOD is available 24 hrs a day around the clock HE is never too busy for you nor is he never there HE is always there HE never slumbers nor sleeps HE is always there when you need HIM. You won't be put on hold or asked to call back I think that is just lovely. Get to know God get close to him tell him all your hurts,fears, concerns, goals, dreams, plans, everything tell God. Even though he already knows conversation with GOD is great, growing and so needed in our life. We can't make it on our own success without GOD is no sucess at all. we must learn to humble ourselves and LIFT up GOD. to humble ourselves is not to be little ourselves but to know that we need GOD we can't make it on our own, it is to be greatful and thankful for all that GOD has given us, to be aware that GOD is the one who gives us life and strength. We do not wake up ourselves GOD wakes us. We should be thankful and aware of this once we have come into the knowledge of the truth those in the dark can not see or know this for they are still in the dark and no into the light as yet. We can pray for them strangers, loved ones in our time we are conversating with GOD. Prayer is basically conversations with GOD. Take time to also read the bible you do not have to read the bible in a whole day or put pressure on yourself to know every verse just take your time read a verse a day or start of with a devotion a day that normally will come with a verse of the day. We do not gain GODS love by works or what we do or don't do it is by his grace, mercy, and love. Be sure to do these things because you want to do them, you want to know God and dwell in Hid presence. Because there is nothing we can do to make GOD love us anymore or less. HE loves us regardless of what we do or don't do. GOD hates the sin but LOVES the sinner let us all remember that.
Don't be shy GOD knows you everything about you and he loves you. You are Welcomed to speak with him walk with him dwell with him. JESUS longs to be our friend. HE is a friend to the end he can be trusted we need to trust GOD more than we do which is a learning process so do not feel bad if you do not trust GOD as you should he understands because he made us he understands it's hard to be us yet he loves us you and me each and every one of us. Well this is it for now please be reminded to talk to GOD daily he longs to hear from you. Sit back talk to God be real with him share it all with him he is a GREAT listener he hears it ALL. HE is so amazing that he hears all prayers at one time only GOD can do that. We in our own human strength could not do that just not within our capacity BUT GOD can do it because HE is GOD. He is able and capable. So right now, or before bed tonight talk to GOD. If you are a writer like me you can write to him HE is there waiting, loving, caring, watching, GOD is so amazing to me. I love him in a HUGE way simply amazing singing out assuring you GOD loves you and I do to have a blessed day, week, night and rest of your life.
Miss Compassion.
By: Mireille Robinson M.
COPYWRIGHTS @2011
Monday, February 14, 2011
VALENTINES DAY
Valentines day the day many take time to do things they normally would not do but should do on a daily basis. There are some who hate Valentines day because they either feel it is a foolish holiday or they have no one so therefore they despise the mere fact of Valentines Day. What is Valentines day ?? what does Valentines Day mean to you where did it come from ?? many have questions they don't have the answer to. Every day should be a day of love care thoughtfulness and concern but at times it is not. Some people make too much of a huge deal out of Valentines Day to the point of anger and breaking up of relationships. Nothing wrong with Valentines day or liking Valentines Day just don't confine it to just that day to only show the ones you love that you love them. We should love on one another every day of our lives. GOD and GOD alone can teach us how to really love one another. Love is a beautiful thing it just has been abused and misued so many times it's almost like it's not even taken seriously anymore. We must keep in mind that as long as there is a GOD there is LOVE for GOD is LOVE. It is who GOD is.
This Valentines Day and all the days of your life I hope you find love peace and joy let's remember that LOVE is unconditional not conditional even though we tend to love more conditionally more than anything else this is why we need JESUS can't do it without him at all. HE is the way the light and the answer. This Valentines Day was a pretty good one for me I was surprise in a way I was not expecting but my answer still was not yes. There is a meaning to what I said but I won't go into it because that is my business (smile.) The flower, hearts, baloons, candy, smiles, kisses, hugs, all that I like so you can say I have nothing against Valentines Day. I am a firm believer that it should be every day. Love should be every day not just on one particular day. World needs more love and compassion people are too into themsleves and cold hearted world NEEDS JESUS badly. We can be his feet hands smile and vessel you just have to allow GOD to use you open up your heart to him give him access to roll with the best JESUS is the best always and forever. When you have no valentines, when all valentines checked out on you, you always have JESUS HE is not into the checking out leaving you business he will stick by you close than a brother mother or friend JESUS rocks and he wants to rock with you have your back in all you do so if you have not wished JESUS a Happy Valentines Day make sure you do that before the day is out. JESUS is love and he cares for you on Valentines day and every day of you entire life. Be blessed and encouraged.
Miss Compassion
COPYWRIGHTS @ 2011
bY: Mireille Robinson
This Valentines Day and all the days of your life I hope you find love peace and joy let's remember that LOVE is unconditional not conditional even though we tend to love more conditionally more than anything else this is why we need JESUS can't do it without him at all. HE is the way the light and the answer. This Valentines Day was a pretty good one for me I was surprise in a way I was not expecting but my answer still was not yes. There is a meaning to what I said but I won't go into it because that is my business (smile.) The flower, hearts, baloons, candy, smiles, kisses, hugs, all that I like so you can say I have nothing against Valentines Day. I am a firm believer that it should be every day. Love should be every day not just on one particular day. World needs more love and compassion people are too into themsleves and cold hearted world NEEDS JESUS badly. We can be his feet hands smile and vessel you just have to allow GOD to use you open up your heart to him give him access to roll with the best JESUS is the best always and forever. When you have no valentines, when all valentines checked out on you, you always have JESUS HE is not into the checking out leaving you business he will stick by you close than a brother mother or friend JESUS rocks and he wants to rock with you have your back in all you do so if you have not wished JESUS a Happy Valentines Day make sure you do that before the day is out. JESUS is love and he cares for you on Valentines day and every day of you entire life. Be blessed and encouraged.
Miss Compassion
COPYWRIGHTS @ 2011
bY: Mireille Robinson
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Christians in the Club?
Now I know there are many different views on this. Some say believers have no business in the club they say the club/lounge is no place for a christian. I beg to differ only because we aren't to look down on anyone the people in the club, lounges need prayer too this is not to say you can't pray for them without going to the lounge but still, I believe it's good to step out see what's going on in the world mingle without mingling show love without participating in the hoopla.
I believe where va you go GOD is. JESUS be up in the club he's right there I don't care what anybody says HE be right up in there. JEsUs dwells with the sinners he walks and talks with them he doesn't condemn or look down on them as heathens of the earth. I'm not JeSUS and I'm not saying I would slam walk up in a crack house out the blue but what I am saying is if lead to or just to visit every once and a while a lounge what harm is there in that??... Now if you attend to drink, get drunk, dance and grind yourself up on every man that makes a pass @ you that's an issue.
I also realize there are some women that have partied all their life went out drank, got drunk, did unspeakable things in night clubs and that's just no longer for them they found Jesus and just can't go back to that nite life especially if drinking and night clubs are their weakness it's best for them to just stay away that I can fully understand. I believe the reason why I look @ this in a different aspect is because I was never that call not saying that makes me a saint because I am no saint..but I never partied a lot drank got drunk or any of that first time I went to a lounge I was think 26 or 27 it was a pretty interesting experience. I enjoyed myself but knew every weekend night, that's just not for me but I wouldn't knock it completely.
Oddly enough when growing up although I am very fashionable and love to dance and rock the heels and hair I don't do make up much, (smile) I just never had the desire to go clubbin then my perception of clubs were wrong I thought men were rude and just grabbed up on you. I thought men degraded women in clubs especially being out that late at night. I also believe GOD just kept me from certain things certain things he just shielded my eyes from cause HE knew it would be upsetting to me. So what I may have been a little sheltered.
Once I went and experienced it I found out men do respect you as long as you respect yourself. Men aren't grabbing all up on you like I thought. Also if u don't flirt they won't flirt with you so its all about how you carry yourself in these enviorments. Frankly I was able to share the love of JeSUS and a bit of my story with a guy in a lounge once. I was introduced to him by a cousin of mine that I went out that night. This doesn't happen all the time but that particular night was a divine appointment. He noticed I wasn't drinking or dancing up on dudes..I was just sitting quiet and observing pretty much. People are attracted to different or some I should say if not most. Difference in a person can bring questions. So he asked me how come ur not drinking or dancing? Would you like me to buy you a drink? I said no then went on to answer his questions he asked more and within that conversation I was able to share the love of JeSus with him right there up in the lounge. A seed was planted a difference was seen and some changes were made can't NOBODY tell me JESUS wasn't in the mist. Too many times people try to put GOD in a box and he isn't to be boxed in not at all.
So to conclude let GOD speak to your heart about the lounges I see it differently because I have no issues with drinking clubbin hard and goin buck loose in night clubs.So for me I see no harm not if GOD were to ever convict me or speak to me to stop then I will..but as for not my mission to claim every soul up in the lounges when eva I go which isn't often but once and a while. Someones always watching and if GOD lives in you where va you go he goes. Even if he doesn't he's still there because he's GOD.
I believe where va you go GOD is. JESUS be up in the club he's right there I don't care what anybody says HE be right up in there. JEsUs dwells with the sinners he walks and talks with them he doesn't condemn or look down on them as heathens of the earth. I'm not JeSUS and I'm not saying I would slam walk up in a crack house out the blue but what I am saying is if lead to or just to visit every once and a while a lounge what harm is there in that??... Now if you attend to drink, get drunk, dance and grind yourself up on every man that makes a pass @ you that's an issue.
I also realize there are some women that have partied all their life went out drank, got drunk, did unspeakable things in night clubs and that's just no longer for them they found Jesus and just can't go back to that nite life especially if drinking and night clubs are their weakness it's best for them to just stay away that I can fully understand. I believe the reason why I look @ this in a different aspect is because I was never that call not saying that makes me a saint because I am no saint..but I never partied a lot drank got drunk or any of that first time I went to a lounge I was think 26 or 27 it was a pretty interesting experience. I enjoyed myself but knew every weekend night, that's just not for me but I wouldn't knock it completely.
Oddly enough when growing up although I am very fashionable and love to dance and rock the heels and hair I don't do make up much, (smile) I just never had the desire to go clubbin then my perception of clubs were wrong I thought men were rude and just grabbed up on you. I thought men degraded women in clubs especially being out that late at night. I also believe GOD just kept me from certain things certain things he just shielded my eyes from cause HE knew it would be upsetting to me. So what I may have been a little sheltered.
Once I went and experienced it I found out men do respect you as long as you respect yourself. Men aren't grabbing all up on you like I thought. Also if u don't flirt they won't flirt with you so its all about how you carry yourself in these enviorments. Frankly I was able to share the love of JeSUS and a bit of my story with a guy in a lounge once. I was introduced to him by a cousin of mine that I went out that night. This doesn't happen all the time but that particular night was a divine appointment. He noticed I wasn't drinking or dancing up on dudes..I was just sitting quiet and observing pretty much. People are attracted to different or some I should say if not most. Difference in a person can bring questions. So he asked me how come ur not drinking or dancing? Would you like me to buy you a drink? I said no then went on to answer his questions he asked more and within that conversation I was able to share the love of JeSus with him right there up in the lounge. A seed was planted a difference was seen and some changes were made can't NOBODY tell me JESUS wasn't in the mist. Too many times people try to put GOD in a box and he isn't to be boxed in not at all.
So to conclude let GOD speak to your heart about the lounges I see it differently because I have no issues with drinking clubbin hard and goin buck loose in night clubs.So for me I see no harm not if GOD were to ever convict me or speak to me to stop then I will..but as for not my mission to claim every soul up in the lounges when eva I go which isn't often but once and a while. Someones always watching and if GOD lives in you where va you go he goes. Even if he doesn't he's still there because he's GOD.
Friday, May 21, 2010
Mean Girls
Why would u smile in ur sisters face then vicisously talk behind her back? Why would u plot and have ill thoughts towards ur sister? Why would u malicously set out to plot against her and just hate the very skin she lives in what evil is it that u have allowed to dwell in ur heart what is it in you that brings u to such a place to hate the very image of you why must sum girls have such a negative vibe towards one another why can't u jus love ur sister instead of tryin to compete against her why?!?!!
Where do mean girls orginate from? Broken homes? Hurt places? Negative inputs? They can orginate from anywhere they could become you and me is we aren't careful girls can be the death of another females self esteem. Mean girl tend to be unhapppy with themselves so they cause hurt, pain or harm to others. Mean girls suck but they need love too cause we ALL need love no matter what we have done, where we came from, where we have been, who we are, how much we make, or what our occupation is. We were made to love and be loved. I have had my share of expereince with mean girls at my young age I didn't understand why they were so mean to me. It was when I got older I later understood that they were "hatin" on me as some put it.
Pray as I will myself that you don't ever become a mean girl the emotional pain nd even physical pain they inflict on others is no joke. Mean girls have generated from generation to generation they still exsist today we must remember them and pray for them. To my share of mean girls I have forgive you. To the mean girls take time to stop and think before you inflict pain on another learn empathy and try to make it a way of life seek your inner self, hurt, and pain to see why in fact you feel in order to survive you must inflict pain on another. For now this is Mrs. Compassion signing out one love. Always loving, always giving.
By: Mireille Robinson
Where do mean girls orginate from? Broken homes? Hurt places? Negative inputs? They can orginate from anywhere they could become you and me is we aren't careful girls can be the death of another females self esteem. Mean girl tend to be unhapppy with themselves so they cause hurt, pain or harm to others. Mean girls suck but they need love too cause we ALL need love no matter what we have done, where we came from, where we have been, who we are, how much we make, or what our occupation is. We were made to love and be loved. I have had my share of expereince with mean girls at my young age I didn't understand why they were so mean to me. It was when I got older I later understood that they were "hatin" on me as some put it.
Pray as I will myself that you don't ever become a mean girl the emotional pain nd even physical pain they inflict on others is no joke. Mean girls have generated from generation to generation they still exsist today we must remember them and pray for them. To my share of mean girls I have forgive you. To the mean girls take time to stop and think before you inflict pain on another learn empathy and try to make it a way of life seek your inner self, hurt, and pain to see why in fact you feel in order to survive you must inflict pain on another. For now this is Mrs. Compassion signing out one love. Always loving, always giving.
By: Mireille Robinson
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Be Satisfied With That Man You Got And...
It really disturbs me when I hear women complaining about the man they have as if he's the worse man in the world. So your married and you live in an apartment or let's say a nice small house on the hill you complain cause you want a bigger house and you saying your husband isn't working hard enough and how he should be the bread winner. First of all who says he has to be the bread winner and why must you be in a bigger house?? Right now?? What's wrong with the house yall are in now? Besides the fact that you think it's just too small? You have a man that makes a decent living he loves you and only you, he comes home to you every night, he doesn't neglect you, or try to control you, he listens to you, communicates things to you, actually engages in conversations with you, spends QT with you, yet u find something to complain about.. There's nothing wrong with wanting a bigger house but don't make it an major issues there are many women in HUGE houses and their house isn't a home either the husbands workin to much he's more devoted to his job than he is his family or he sleepin around on the wife. One might think she's happy cause she lives in a big house and got 3 rides in the garage but is she really happpy?? Everything is not what it seems you can have a huge house, a mansion even and it not be a home. So just be content with what you have there's always something to be thankful for. And to my ladies that are confused and don't know what you want can we please get it together. You complain that all men are rude, abusive, in jail, cheating, or dating a white women, or jus plain don't treat you right. Then you meet or get a man that's kind, caring, understanding, sweet, but then you complain that he's "too nice" or not "rough enough" you want a man to rough you up? And slap you around?? What's with this he's not rough enough garbage. Its either there are no good men or when you get a good man he isn't good enough. When will it end? Completeness and wholenss must first start with you and the creator GOD you can't find urself in no man, place, or thing. If your never satisfied its cause u haven't allowed JESUS into every area of ur heart, life, mind, body, and soul. No man can complete you maybe ur lookin for too much from a man ur lookin to a man to provide things for you he doesn't posess. There's no amount of flattering words, sex, money, or kids..that can fill that void. Maybe we need to check ourselves and stop placin the blame on men. Yes men can do some triflin things..and so can some women. We must start checkin ourselves know who you are, and whose you are as well as what you want out of life and a man. Some men are confused as all heck cause they don't know what women want..and that's cause some women don't even know what they want. If I was a man I would be just as confused I feel for some of our men of today. Being a man isn't easy even though I know they act like they tougher than leather and always got it together trust and know behind closed doors that front drops and it drops fast. As women we should find our contentment in GOD and all the rest will follow. Don't be desperate, don't look desperate, don't wear desperation. Contentment is da sweetest thing try it and you won't go back.
Ladies if you have a good man and he's doin the best he can..he's not cheating on you he's there for you, he takes care of you, he love you and only you, he shows you, and he tells you, and then some please hang on to what you have be content and thankful for the man you have there are women who would envy you because of the man you have and your complaining? Let's be for real love the one your with respect, honor, and love that Man, support him and assure him that next to JEsUs he's the best thing that's ever happened to you given that he is. Don't push a good man away because of your bitterness handle that hurt and bitterness before you even marry. Aside from that to my married ladies love your husband give it to him every night...well depending on his and ur sex drive....lol.. Strip for that man keep it sexxy for him you know the motto "freak in the bedroom lady in the streets" alright now let's do it married folks are suppose to have sex aside from being one and being there for each other through thick and thin sex is a part and it's okay there's no shame in it cause you can do that so do it and do it often. Make sure you keep yourself up neat and sexy make vikkies, walmart, target, and fredericks of holloywood part of your wardrobe your husband will thank you for it. Well ladies love you..to my married girls keep it going..and to my single ladies keep it tight till your my Mr. God's right for you finds you till then u do what you do..let's uplift the men in our lives..pray for them and love them.
By: Mireille Robinson
Aka Miss Compassion
Copywrights 2010
Ladies if you have a good man and he's doin the best he can..he's not cheating on you he's there for you, he takes care of you, he love you and only you, he shows you, and he tells you, and then some please hang on to what you have be content and thankful for the man you have there are women who would envy you because of the man you have and your complaining? Let's be for real love the one your with respect, honor, and love that Man, support him and assure him that next to JEsUs he's the best thing that's ever happened to you given that he is. Don't push a good man away because of your bitterness handle that hurt and bitterness before you even marry. Aside from that to my married ladies love your husband give it to him every night...well depending on his and ur sex drive....lol.. Strip for that man keep it sexxy for him you know the motto "freak in the bedroom lady in the streets" alright now let's do it married folks are suppose to have sex aside from being one and being there for each other through thick and thin sex is a part and it's okay there's no shame in it cause you can do that so do it and do it often. Make sure you keep yourself up neat and sexy make vikkies, walmart, target, and fredericks of holloywood part of your wardrobe your husband will thank you for it. Well ladies love you..to my married girls keep it going..and to my single ladies keep it tight till your my Mr. God's right for you finds you till then u do what you do..let's uplift the men in our lives..pray for them and love them.
By: Mireille Robinson
Aka Miss Compassion
Copywrights 2010
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